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We heal and release negative patterns and old programs that no longer serve us by working on core soul issues. We ask the higher self to speak its truth from a place of unconditional love by going within to be a witness. By doing this we empower ourselves to reweave the grid of our karmic vibrations and energetic circles of life.
(Warning, read the rest of this post at your own risk! It may not all be pleasant so I inspire you to ground and protect yourself before going any further and take it in as enlightenment purposes only.)

I have never danced so hard in my life. Both my feet are sore, my legs hurt and my body aches all over, but I can’t tell you how good it feels to play full out and put my all into the retreat.
I am so deeply grateful and honored as I just had the pleasure to dance with and spend the last 8 Days at a Kundalini Dance Awakening Retreat with 17 divinely beautiful women, all consciously dancing their hearts out, alchemizing mother earth energy and father sun source energy, ecstatically activating their chakra systems to raise their own vibration and the collective vibration on this planet.
These women were all beautiful from day one, but by day eight they were all glowing with so much more unconditional love and light in their hearts. This presence created deep connections and affinity for each other, together building trust in them selves and with the divine feminine and the divine masculine, and healing sisterhood wounds and growing together.
There was massive appreciation from all the beautiful women to me for holding the masculine presence on the dance floor with compassion and unconditional love for all of them. I saw the divine in each and every one of these beauties and honored them as that. They all loved me for it, for my own authenticity and my courage, as I was the only male that was present and I was able to relax into my inner femininity and let go. As the divine masculine, I committed myself to personal growth, to work on myself in any situation right along side of them.
To all the men out there
I just want to let you know “Man to Man” that I witnessed a deep sad longing in the hearts of these women for the men in their lives to step it up, to have passion for personal self growth. They had a yearning for their men to come from a place of compassion and unconditional love and to have a mission in life that serves the greater good of all.
I have seen their pain and sad heart longing for the man to be there for them to catch up and lead by example in life, centered, grounded, balanced and present as the divine masculine in harmony with and with a huge affinity for the divine feminine.
I want to tell all men that if you’re coming from the right place you can grow anywhere, anytime, anyplace, always.
To show up as a man is the least you can do to hold space for her and support her to let go into trust. After all, femininity has been suppressed for thousands of years. I think it would be safe to say that all women have been raped and molested in some form if not physically then energetically. If she hasn’t been raped in this life she has in a past life and for those of you who don’t believe in past lives there is also cellular memory of these traumas engrained in our family DNA and soul lineage. Many men will see a woman walking on the street, on TV or in a magazine and energetically cord her straight in her second Chakra by in his mind striping her naked and jacking off to her; he fucks her whether she wants to or not, without her permission.
Even in relationships a woman will have sex with her man even when she doesn’t want to, she gives up her power in fear of on some level not being loved. She spreads her legs and unpassionately lets her man fuck her, and then she is hurt even more because he didn’t even notice she wasn’t into it at the moment or worse, he didn’t care. Mainly this man is not present. If he was he would realize it was no better than masturbating. In fact it is way worse because he hurts her directly that way.
Lets face it, women have been raped, pillaged and killed by men for thousands of years just for being women. All throughout history women have been misused, abused, mistreated, misguided, manipulated, misled and burned at the stake by men. All human beings have fears and insecurities to heal and transcend and both men and women have to heal their karmic wounds together.

Kundalini Dance for Healing
This type of self healing work directly focuses on oneness vibrations, revealing how everything is unconditionally connected to you, your relationships and all other areas of your life.
Come on, guys…think about all of those challenging issues that arise when in a relationship with a women. Each partner brings a mess of baggage with deep emotional wounds and behavioral patterns. Kundalini Dance is offering a safe place to not only face even the most repressed issue, but to actively transcend and move them out of your body. Facilitating the evolvement of everyone involved, but speaking directly to my brothers…I watched the transformation of these women in such a short period of time…their inner being becoming softer, gentler, yet more empowered creative divine beauties. What’s not to love?
And they want you to hold space for that. You help speed up their process and your own. A win-win and you don’t even have to do anything but be present; they do their own inner work.
So just to finish saying my piece to men as a man that was a witness to 17 spiritual high quality beautiful women: they would all love for more men to step it up and show up to be present and hold space for them. I know this as truth because I felt it heart to heart as the only man there witnessing their growth.
I did, I do and I can’t tell you how good it feels to be appreciated for showing up as the only man. All I can say is that you were missing out on witnessing their opening and alchemizing their energies and inner blossoming, all their letting go and setting free to shine with light from the inside out, the transformation of the divine beauty, their crying, their smiling and laughing and their love for witnessing.
Thank You All For That!
That alone would have been worth it for me, but I got my own growth out of it as well, I got my own awakening in my own dance.
My Kundalini Dance Transformational Journey

My wife and I have been introduced to Kundalini Dance for the last 2 years now and before that I never really was into dancing, nor did I feel like I knew how to dance. But I have always loved personal growth and beautiful women so it just seemed like the place to be.
This eight day transformational Awakening workshop in Canada that I just returned from was deeply healing.
We danced, we did shamanic journeys, and we were all in intimate space, deeply connecting on the dance floor together. We were each others reflections to face and look at our inner selves through.
Some mornings we walked out to the beautiful sea to breathe the fresh air and move our energy, to alchemically activate and energize our Chakras before we went into the temple to dance. The days that we didn’t go out to the sea we still did that daily practice of alchemizing and balancing our divine energy’s before we danced and also all through out our dance as well. We started at the base Chakra and worked our way up to crown Chakra, including the thymus Chakra, focusing on one chakra each of the eight days.
It was interesting to notice the human programs and boundaries we all have at different levels. One in particular that my inner witness got to witness was that of being in a room with a lot of beautiful women, and even out of your eyes peripheral it’s really hard not to also see a room full of beautiful boobies.
Now I just want to say I love boobies but I also want to respect peoples boundaries and relationship agreements. With that said, it was interesting to notice the energy in the room and the thoughts in my head, because I know everyone else is not blinded and could see the abundant beauty that I saw. Even between the women there are still those boundaries and relationship agreements we are all conscious of respecting. I noticed how it is even more restricted on a different level for me just because I am in a man’s body.
I truly don’t think any one of the women felt violated in any way by who I am or what I did or did not do, but on a different deeper level I sensed there was a feeling of violation just because I am a man.
In this life it is my practice to love women unconditionally, so I was just present for that, for them and for myself. But in a past life it was not always as it is now.
On Solar Plexus Day in the Kundalini Dance Awakening Retreat, we all took a beautiful walk into nature, on this trail to a sweet little grove where we all did our spiritual voodoo breathing techniques. At one point I had a past life vision of me as King Of The Land and I had an abundance of concubines. I felt like I was the King that invented lust or at least made it socially and globally the norm frame of consciences within the masses.
We walked back to the temple, back on the dance floor in the middle of four beautiful altars earth, air, fire, and water. Then we paired up and witnessed each other go through a deep shamanic drum journey. My journey lead me down a path of intense shame I never got to face, feel, forgive, so I got to go through the healing process back when I was King in that past life. I felt my betrayal of all my people both the women and the men.
In my past life journey, I saw my self as a King who stole all the women from my own men. I had their mothers, sisters, daughters and wives all as my sex slaves, all mine. I owned them as my possessions and I don’t think it even registered in that life that women even had souls or I just didn’t care. But I did love them all, just like you love your clothes or your cars. If they didn’t do what the King said I just gave the order and got rid of them, I had them killed. I would never hurt them myself, so I thought. But I rapped them of their souls; I tore painful karmic energetic wounds with no consideration of others or myself at the time.
In this life I have compassion and know unconditional love and so I felt that what I was not able to feel in the evolutionary process I was at then. I surrendered to and let go of egoic attachments of pride and I felt immense pain of intense shame for what I did on so many different levels, I felt the pain of all the men and the women I betrayed in so many different ways.
I am sure I didn’t go as deep as I could have with more time because before I knew it we were lead right out of our journey back through the light with love again.
I came back out still a King but a King of service to my people, the people of humanity. I am a King of compassion and understanding. I have a lot to give back and it is my right to. I am a King of forgiveness because I have forgiven myself. I am dedicated to make right where I have done wrong in the past. I am a King of Integrity and Unconditional Love. I am not here to have power over anyone, but to be of service and to empower, to up lift and bring out the divine in you. I also have a huge affinity for the feminine, for women and the quality of relationships we have with women and women have with themselves and each other.
Blessings and thank you so much for reading, if you liked this article it would really help me if you Retweet-ed it and shared it with your friends on facebook.
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***Leyolah Antara, the founder of Kundalini Dance, facilitated the Awakening Retreat we just went to.
I love her, she is a pure divine radiating love based energetic being. She shares her wisdom and empowerment freely with those who wish to find true freedom. Visit Leyolah at Kundalini-Dance.com
***My long time friend Yarah is a Kundalini Dance Facilitator and is raising her energy for the highest good of all. Located right here in the States based out of Santa Cruz Ca,

Yarah and her divine sisters will go where the people want to dance and raise their vibrations! Interested? We can offer a retreat in your area, let us know where you are at. Email Yarah @ escapetheordinary22@yahoo.com or visit RisingKundaliniDance.com
Thanks unconditionally and all the best,

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(Notes from my journal during “The Awakening Retreat” Day 1)

I bring in mother Earth Energy
I bring in financial abundance
I release financial blocks and limitations
I am grounded
I am in love with nature
Nature is in love with me
Thank you for loving me
I love you back
Thank you for being so beautiful
I drop down into my center
I own my personal space
I am healed by Earth Energy and I am empowered through Source Energy
I am soft free flowing and solid all at the same time within me I am balanced
I am truly loved
I am blessed by God
I honor my unique gifts
I breathe and I am calm
All the beauty in the world is a gift for me
I am truly grateful
I want to surrender all my past guilt and shame
I release and let go of all judgments
I wish to know death intimately unafraid
I wish to drown to be reborn free to flow as eternal conscious source energy
I pray for forgiveness and know there is nothing to forgive
I pray to know God intimately
I pray for strong self discipline
I pray to know and experience my personal power unwavering in my space with serenity and clarity of purpose in alignment with the greater good of all
I pray to know my purpose for the divine feminine
Thanks for reading
Blessings,

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(My Journal notes that I read to both my wife and the woman I wrote about here.)
We breathed together, we dropped in together bringing Earth energy up and Source energy down… alchemizing…left eye to left eye locked loving the beauty of each others souls. I asked her, “Who Are You?” she responded as love. I honored her as that. I then held space and guided her through her layers during a thymus chakra journey.
I was caught off guard in the beginning and noticed I had to let go of the attachment of thinking she needed to go deep into some kind of intense pain like I had just done when she was holding space for my journey.
Her journey started off over all light, playful and even seductive along with some resistance to go into the journey at first, a little fear, and an energetic picture of “some mother fucker holding her back”.
As I let go of my judgment and became even more present as just the witness leading her through her own journey, to my surprise she began going deeper not into pain to work through but instead deeper into the states of bliss and ecstasy she needed to experience.
(Now as I write this, I am wondering where was the resistance coming from and why? Who was the “some mother fucker holding her back and why?)
She was (is) so beautiful and brave for how deep she went. I keep my distance holding my space as she went deeper into an ecstatic river of gold ecstasy on the floor in front of me, her body vibrating in her opening of trust and joy of her connectedness to the matrix of love and bliss. Then moving that energy of bliss of the ecstatic river of gold back up through the pathway she came from to get there, taking those energies of ecstasy back thorough her picture of “some mother fucker holding her back” and up through her fear and her resistance with this process: clearing, releasing, healing herself, becoming lighter, brighter and glowing from having a full body orgasm within her journey of the thymus chakra.
And to complete her process she needed me to stand behind her as the divine masculine, put my arms around her up by her shoulders and hold her with my love.
Damn, that was sexy and beautiful! Now that it is over I have to make sure I did not cord her. All my attraction buttons where pushed, I am even witnessing my desire of wanting her, wanting more of her divine feminine opening even still with my beautiful wife in mind and in my heart.
So I sit with that, it feels good, it feels pure. I am not attached to any outcome, and I am just noticing it as it is. I am not leaking sexual energy. I am not creating any fantasies in my head. I am still just witnessing. I see beneath the desire, there is love. I do not need anything, as I surrender I let go and I am free. Yes, she is sexy and beautiful when she moves her body. But it is not my second chakra that is affected, it is my heart chakra that appreciates the love and beauty that she is. So I honor that.
My heart also wants my wife to know that I love her and that she is also sexy and beautiful when she moves her body. And that it is the opening of the divine feminine to her love and bliss that triggers my deep desire for her.
Thank you for loving me.
Thank you for reading, if you like this please share it with your friends.
Blessings with love and light

PS. I would love to read your comments on this post.
PSS. If you want to know more about Kundalini Dance go to my Tribe Page
Hi friends,
I just wanted to write you real quick and let you know we will be
gone for a week and a half.
Leah she loves her new Big Purple Suitcase and we are both very
excited about going to Gabriola Island in BC Canada for an intensive
7 day Kundalini Dance Awakening Retreet.
Note: if you want to know more about Kundalini Dance go to my Tribe
Page http://thecompassionatesoul.com/my-tribe/
Each of the 7 days we will be doing focused dancing on each of the
7 Chakras, and deepening into our inner selves. It should be pretty
intense along with a lot of breath work,moving energy through the
body, consciously playing with Mother Earthenergy and Father Source
energy.
We work on the self healing of our emotional blocks and clearing
stuck energy. We do this so that we can continue to help people in
their own growth, since we will not share what we do not know to be
truth.
Leah and I love it, there is sick ass music and beats we get to
dance to. I am not much of a dancer or anything, but you might be
surprised how much you can get out of an experience like this. It
has been my experience with Kundalini Dance that there are a lot
of ups and downs and growth that can be achieved by this evolutionary
method of alchemical dance; you may throw up, get sick, cry, get mad,
extremely happy, sad, everything at once, release old stuck energies,
patterns and beliefs and get rid of what doesn’t serve you. When I
finish a dance session, I leave more empowered, clearer and aligned
with my highest good ready to create!
Although I do my best to not have any expectations for the event
and I am open to it unfolding in any divine way it wants, my intentions
is I am hoping to work on my own inner personal power, and any blocks
I have with being financially abundant in my life, I will be working
on my life mission and soul purpose, energetically focusing on
TheCompassionateSoul.com website and whats the best value I can
offer you through this site. I am always focusing on how to love
Leah more and bring our relationship to higher and higher states
of bliss, and I am sure that God/Universe will surprise me with what
ever I am not expecting as well.
Wail I am gone make share you check out my new Integrity Challenge
page http://thecompassionatesoul.com/integrity-challenge-to-you/
and retweet it to your followers on Twitter and share it with your
Facebook friends.
I cant wait to share with all of you about our experience when we
get back!
Blessings with love,
Jeremy Creager
PS. check out the “Just Do You” REVOLUTION and listen to the recorded
call I was on last night right here
http://instantteleseminar.com/?eventid=9481530

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Aloha Jeremy
I wanted to respond to “training women”…
You are a very good writer
It is true that we can define words as training women in any way we want. The trigger word let’s the person think of their meaning and open their mind…However the preconceived understanding can also limit their ability to truly hear your message.
I often say we train our mate or friends how to treat us by what we allow and what we expect….
I believe we can also help or hinder our mate and friends and ourselves by our words and actions to grow into our full potential of spiritual emotional, mental and physical being…..
As you say….
woman’s whole self healing process does not need the help and support of a “training” guide. If she is so fortunate to manifest her reciprocal in her life that can hold this kind of spiritual space for her to grow in, it is still her choice to take the opportunity or not, but it might make a big difference. I believe this process of emotional and spiritual growth can and should be done in ones life either way but sometimes it is easier with someone that loves you unconditionally by your side on this hard path.
I think this is true for a man or a woman so where is the article on training men…
Blessings,
D
Thank you so much for reading and responding not only from your heart but from a place of true wisdom and compassion. Also, thanks for the compliments about my writing. I love to write, but to be honest most of my stuff is edited because my spelling and grammar is so bad. I can’t always take all the credit.
The topic of “training men” doesn’t seem to be as emotionally charged as the phrase “training women.” It seems to be less threatening, less egoic, less derogatory and less control based, doesn’t it? It feels like it’s almost socially acceptable to “train” a man.
I think in most cases it’s an honor to be trained, like in sports or in such things as yoga training, meditation training, spiritual training or even job training. In these kinds of situations it is like a privilege to be trained. But when you talk about training within intimate relationships all of a sudden training can be seen as a bad word.
I think that the severity of the response to “training woman” can be related to the way that women have been mistreated for thousands of years. It seems the last thing women want is to be “trained” by a man, right when they feel they are getting their personal power back.
But with that said, I agree with you and I have heard it before that “people treat you the way you train them to”. So if that is true then we are already training everybody anyways, intimately or not.
Note: I would also like to say that I am kind of being a biter because my online friend Stephane Hemon at ideaGasms.net is where I got the whole idea of training from. At this point I don’t know where he is with this concept but he did create the “Girlfriend Training Program” awhile back and now I believe he is no longer offering it anymore, if I am correct.
And to your request for an article on “training men” here it is.

Training Men
Things a woman should know in order to train
a high quality man
If you’re a women and you want to know about “training men” then read the rest of this post, and don’t forget to re-tweet this post please.
A woman who is a qualified “man trainer” must first know how to love herself. She must have patience, remember to breathe, and always work on coming from a place of compassion. She can do this by being aware of and connected to her true self as Love. One important way to do this is to stay connected to mother earth and a supportive tribe of women in sisterhood. Through this great loving support she can further hold her man as another reflection of herself and love his imperfections, seeing the perfection in them. It is important for a woman who is training a man to remember to dance, have fun, laugh and play. This kind of man is trained with positive life experiences.
Challenging men is usually not an effective way of training them. A woman can train a man she is in a relationship with by taking her own personal growth steps which forces him to grow with her. A woman can train a man by trusting him and opening to him more, allowing him to do the same. Another component of training is also in the quality lifestyle example you live with and around him, showing him by example so he knows to keep up. However, it is important to know that men generally go through their growth process differently than women. Men tend to sort out and reflect on their growth process more internally, such as through contemplation and meditation. Women tend to talk about and communicate their feelings in order to process them. When training a man, a woman should feel free to lightly check in with him but remember to approach the subject of his internal growth and processing with sensitivity in a non-confrontational way. Another words Respect his process.
A note on the process of unfolding a deep connection of intimacy- I think it is true that when a couple is having sex, the more they work through their relationship and specifically the more she opens and surrenders to the source of love energy, the more a man can, through this deep connection of divine energy through a woman, learn to know God more. For this he will love the woman he is with even more and gain a deeper love for himself as a connected part of that divine energy.
Qualities, behaviors and characteristics
of a man worth training
Not every man is ready to work on himself enough to be “trained” by a woman, so here are some qualities, behaviors and characteristics of a man worth training. Trainable men come from an understanding of unconditional love, compassion and integrity. They are spiritually inclined, come from the heart and are deep and wise. Trainable men have a good sense of humor, are in touch with their feminine side and have a sense of having a mission in life. This type of man ideally should have a natural inclination towards healing, love to learn and grow and understand that the true meaning of life is to be happy.
A woman who wants to be in a relationship of mutual growth and happiness should know that words like “training” are simply tools to communicate the concept of practicing unconditional love, honesty, respect, integrity and pure compassion to hold space for another person to unfold into the highest version of themselves.
For The Trainable Man
If you’re a man and you want a qualified woman to train you, let me tell you from my experience what you’d be looking for. And don’t forget to re-tweet this post please.
A woman who is a qualified man trainer is a spiritual warrior. She is strong, her soul is deep, she loves herself and is unconditionally compassionate. A qualified man trainer is a woman who truly loves the man she is with and has his best interest in mind. Trust her intuition and allow her to use it to encourage both of you in your mutual training process that comes from sharing love, trusting each other and mutual empowerment. This type of woman will serve as a great mirror for a man but he must do a lot of personal work so he can attract a highly qualified woman and build a trusting relationship.
Working on yourself
To me working on yourself means constantly checking in with the deep questions of life and trying to understand the point of your existence. It is wanting to be a deep man, a deep thinker, a man of presence so deep that it is easy to drop into the witness and just be. It is coming from a place of love from the heart and understanding the concept of the interconnectedness of everything. It is important for a man that is wanting to be trained to work on healing emotional wounds. In my situation I feel like I was lucky to have deep painful heart wounds early on that forced me to make the decision to never be the victim of low vibrational feelings and emotions of insecurity, jealousy and fear again. I think emotional pain can be a good thing when it is experienced and used as a learning and growing tool. We all make mistakes but a man of integrity will admit his mistake, correct it the best way that he can and then learn to not make the same mistake again. A trainable man is committed to self honesty and truth. He will use the energy of pain to inspire a new empowering meaning or focus of self serving awareness. A trainable man understands the art of positive manifestation and seeing the beauty in anything and everything within all life.
The most trainable men are in touch with energy and their intuitions. Women and men who are meant to help each other grow and “train” each other mutually attract each other into their lives, whether they are conscious of it or not. That is, when the student is ready the teacher will appear but in this case it would be “trainer” because you have either just manifested a qualified girlfriend “boyfriend trainer” or a qualified wife “husband trainer”.
He must be aware
In order to allow the growth process of being “trained” to occur, a man must be humble and have humility and must not take things personally. He must be aware that when confrontations occur with the woman in his life it is a mirror reflection of his own actions. He must know that at times she won’t believe or trust him, but by trusting in the universe and trusting her she will relax and open back to trust as well. He must trust his mate that he attracted to himself and trust his own self judgment. He must know that there may be times she will be mad because it will seem she is doing all the work on herself in the relationship and he is “Mr. Perfect” and never has to work on his stuff, but really this may be because men are more solitary in their personal growth process and don’t feel like they need to communicate to someone about it as much. It is not his job to make her happy, but his joy to do so.
A trainable man must know, eat, sleep and shit unconditional love. He must love himself and all others as himself. It is deeply important for both partners to have an understanding of polarized attraction and not give up when times get hard, unless it is obvious that they are moving on if they decide to move in different directions in life.
Remember that a man does not need women to train him but if she is truly qualified it is a wonderful experience of learning, growth and love.
Love the process
The idea is to have fun, play with it and don’t be so serious with it all.
Remember we are both going after the same thing; the embodiment of compassion.
Blessings

PS. Thanks for reading and thanks for your questions and comments
PSS. I love my wife, she is so cute!
this video is in honor of her Grandma Lenora who would be 77 today.
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I think that at some point in every woman’s development she needs to be trained. There is something to be said about the resistance and reaction of many people to the term “training women.” Training women, to me, means healing them and loving them unconditionally, but some have a negative response when they hear this phrased as training. Training a woman to me means being present for her growth process with her best interest in mind, guiding her to Honesty, Truth, Unconditional Love and Integrity, and having High Personal Ethics, all while she is being a crazy female in all her free flowing emotions, fears and insecurities. And its loving her unconditionally in her process of becoming the healthy, conscious, empowered, grounded, beautiful Goddess/Priestess that she is.
A man who is qualified to train women stands strong with integrity and compassion when there is a fight with his woman and shit hits the fan, he does not fight back or flee. Training women is about not taking her emotional reactions personally and not making it about you. It is breathing and finding some way to love her and focus on her beauty even in the hardest moments and helping her to see the root of her problem through the painful emotions. Its showing her love even when she is looking at you as if her eyes could kill you. It’s having compassion.
A woman’s whole self healing process does not need the help and support of a “training” guide. If she is so fortunate to manifest her reciprocal in her life that can hold this kind of spiritual space for her to grow in, it is still her choice to take the opportunity or not, but it might make a big difference. I believe this process of emotional and spiritual growth can and should be done in ones life either way but sometimes it is easier with someone that loves you unconditionally by your side on this hard path.

I have noticed that many women are triggered by the phrase “Training Women.” The thought of a man having the power to train them triggers fear based reactions that do not allow women to see the true meaning behind this phrase. By “training women” I do not mean an ego based idea of control. What I mean is more the heart centered concept of healing through guiding. As humans we choose the meanings we give to words and phrases based on our perception and focus. This is one reason it is so hard for most people to accept the concept of “training women” as a good thing rather than a bad thing or something to fear. It’s the meanings they have attached to the words, not the words themselves. Assuming a state of non-judgment and an unattached perspective allows one to become self empowered to find the happy meanings and self serving programs in each life situation. This unbiased state of presence supports us to feel good, seeing the beauty in all of life and knowing unconditional love.
I would say that “training women” from the heart is more like “healing women,” assisting them in healing their emotional, mental and spiritual baggage and issues. This also means helping women to be comfortable with embodying their true feminine power, and knowing this empowerment directly. I believe the “training” of women is really more like the training of men to be present for women with integrity and unconditional love. This means holding heart-centered space for women and leading them through emotional processes that allow them to return to a place within themselves of love and not fear. One of my approaches to “training women” is loving them for being emotional intuitive beings and excepting and appreciating them for all that they are.
Ironically, the women that are most triggered by the words “Training Women” need to be “trained” the most because they have resistance to it. What is your reaction when you think of a women being “trained” by a man? Is it fear based or love based? This is the first step.
Fear based reactions to the phrase “training women” trigger responses such as women thinking that this comes from an egoic intention of control and power. Thoughts such as feeling disrespected, mistrust, judgment, abuse, and anger can arise in a woman who is having a fear based reaction towards a man who is assisting her to come into her female power more fully. All that stuff is fear based blocks not yet ready to be faced. That way of thinking is not coming from a place of love but of fear. This fear can manifest in a feeling of mistrust of men, fear that the man is unintegrous and does not come from the heart, fear of being hurt, abused, or mistreated, fear of being disrespected, or fear of judgment, among other reactions. These fears can stem from negative past experiences with men in this lifetime or in lives past. Men have abused, misused, mislead, tortured and killed women on this planet for thousands of years.
I think it is difficult for a spirit come into this world as a female in this society and not have trust issues with men. I believe this is ingrained into the psychological programming of domestication and cellular memory encoded in the family DNA lineage since the beginning of time. That alone is enough but if you believe in reincarnation it is possible that in many life times as a woman you were raped, pillaged, beaten and killed by men. All of these past experiences can also combine with the fear of the illusion of control in the first place, and the state of not being fully aware of what true power really is, or being afraid of the concept of power and of their own personal power. Sometimes it can also be the fear that some women have of not being unconditionally loved for who they are, or even being scared of not knowing what true unconditional love looks like, feels like, and not recognizing it when it is staring them in the face. It’s not the norm to know unconditional love for all things, you know.
Because of the past history of men dominating women, I believe that women would have the right to be afraid of the phrase “training women,” if it was meant from an egoic place of control. But when I say this phrase I mean it truly from a state of love. There is one thing I do know for sure and that is that I see love in all things. Beauty can be found, felt, and created in all places, spaces, and times.
I believe it is so important to know where someone is coming from. Only then can a woman start to see this process of mutual “training” as a process of unconditional love unfolding.
Men that are heart centered beings and are least attached to the ego based illusions that may come along with the term “training women” are the most qualified trainers. Men that truly come from the heart stand strong, create a safe space for women to open up and then reflect back to them the fears that need to be faced and patterns that need to be addressed. This type of man has done a lot of his own inner self training and comes from a place of unconditional love, integrity and full compassion. A heart centered man sees opportunities of holding spaces of presence for women as mutual growth processes. Not only is his state of non-judgment and unconditional love beneficial to the healing of the woman he is holding space for, but it is self training for him by conditioning himself to be present for women so they may both see each other as a reflection and can safely take inner steps toward personal growth.
So what does the phrase “training women” mean to you? Is your reaction fear based or love based?

They key to experiencing a love-based reaction to this concept of allowing heart-based men to help facilitate a process of spiritual and emotional growth is trust. It is trusting and forgiving men, and the letting go of hate, anger and resentments. When you can feel trust and not be stuck in the thinking about feeling trust, then you have entered into the realm of knowing where the man is coming from, in that moment, and not worrying if he has a hidden intention or agenda. Feeling this trust allows women to face fears, deal with them and use the self reflection generated by the “training” interaction with a man to take further steps down the path of spiritual growth.
Blessing from my heart,
all the best

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Hi this is Jeremy Creager hope all is well with you. Please read enjoy and share this paper with your family, friends, and enemies.
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5-10-07
I am Perfection; this is who I am, all that I am BEing is perfect; I am not “only just” a man, I am
Perfection within all my imperfections,
Lessons of life in all dimensions,
As ones heart has love in it then perfection is realization,
Painting beautiful pictures of life from the fulfillment of the heart is passion,
One may see perfection in pain and suffering with compassion,
Self love means; perfection is I am,
When we penetrate the deepest depths of perfection,
All the qualities of love in us come out from within,
Perfection from perception,
Who sees beauty’s flawlessness in all that is?
Perfection is yet another thing that connects us,
You are me and I is we perfect us be,
The perfection that is us blows my mind,
As perfect as one is being love perfection is all that we find,
All things are wonderful even within space and time,
I know the greatness within you as the perfect divine,
See the perfection in death and be at peace with it,
See the perfection in life and love it,
Perfection sees beyond duality,
Perfection sees the illusions of reality,
Perfect freedom as life dose whatever it’s doing,
Perfect is peace stillness the unmoving,
Perfect perfection is within all of us,
Find perfection within yourself and yourself you will love and trust.
Channeled Through, Jeremy Creager
Aka, Perfection
I would love to here your input on this. Please leave your comments or questions or email me at
jeremy@thecompassionatesoul.com
Thanks and many blessings,
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(Disclaimer; All of this is just my own opinion and personal truth at the moment.)
6-23-07
I have an abundance of love within me.
I am who I am;
It is a gift to experience me in your life, as equal a gift as to experience you in mine.
A gift of giving is love. Love is open and letting go. To give our love as a gift is just being and that is all.
Caring is love; to give a gift is sharing.
To give love is to give caring, sharing is caring, and is to give love.
Love is always open, it is never closed.
I am who I am;
I was not afraid of my dad dieing, I am not afraid of my mom dieing, I am not afraid of dieing, but I am afraid of not living to the fullest.
I am not afraid of our relationships dieing, but I am afraid of being in a relationship (with myself or somebody else) that is not a vehicle to being able to live life to the fullest, through transcending fear and insecurities.
Fear is conditional; Love is unconditional.
Conditional is attachment to.
Unconditional is letting go of attachment and or being free.
Unconditional needs no judgment.
Conditional needs to judge out of fear of not meeting the conditions and by judging the conditional conditions.
Fear being conditional, judges what’s conditional; fear judges fear.
Fear is judgment.
From the heart; love does not judge love.
Love = love.
Love is not better or worse than love. Love can have all different forms of love but love still = love.
All love is equal, thus being unconditional.
There is love and there is more love and more love is freer, to be freer is to have or be more love.
In this realm of freer love, love from within expands, grows, and expresses more and more love.
I have an abundance of love within me.
To share myself with anyone is to share my love with them, and to experience another is to experience love.
The same abundance of love that is within me is also within everyone.
It is the nature of love to be free.
One cannot grow in love when one is not free.
One becomes not free, when one becomes attached to anything, even when one becomes attached to not being attached, one takes away freedom from one’s self.
(From a nonjudgmental point of view) When we are attached to something, it is neither good nor bad; it wisely serves its purpose, other wise it would not be there in the first place.
Attachment is only of the lovely ego, it is taking things personally.
The ego takes things personally out of fear of not being enough, out of this fear the ego attaches itself to anything and everything it can, to try and be secure because it is not.
Ego is always wanting more, and never wanting to let go of anything.
To have for the ego is to be more, and more for the ego is never enough.
It is the illusion of the ego to be separate from, disconnected from self and all else.
The ego imprisons itself unknowingly or uncaring, in our allowing of the taking away of our freedom and giving up our self power to the lovely ego.
One of the hardest things to let go of is attachment.
It is one of, if not the (in my opinion) strongest survival tools the ego has, to survive and to control us, by our allowing the ego to still our self power, self freedom, and self love, and then fill us with fear; fear of not being enough.
Self power, self freedom and self love are the self, we our free love empowered.
Free love empowered is enough.
I have fears, and I process them.
I have fears and I see the illusions that they are.
In just seeing the illusion of fear creates non fear out of fear, it makes fear no longer fear, no fear, but only the “illusion of fear” is fear, is just an illusion.
Take away conditional and there is unconditional.
Take away fear and there is love.
Take away conditional fear and there is unconditional love.
Jeremy Creager
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thank you for loving me, I love you back unconditionally
blessings,
I am desperate and I don’t care who knows about it. It’s not a bad place to be but in fact it’s a perfect new beginning to start with.
To give up, to let go, to release and be free in the moment.
I heard this quote “The Mother of all Success is 100% Desperation” off some online training video months ago. I didn’t fully know what it meant but it did resonate with me so I typed it out real big in Word Document and then printed it. I posted it so I see it right in front of me when I am sitting at my desk every day.
I want to be as real with you as I can and don’t pretend to have all the right answers in life.
What you are about to read below is me, a desperate man coming from my heart expressing how I feel in life at least right now in the moment I was righting it. I sent it to a select few close friends and family and a few people that could be experts in the areas of my desperations. I got some really good replies; they were my own personal questions so I got back some really good personal answers.
AND thank you so much to those that did respond to me, they really mean a lot to be for all your love and support.
Blessings to you all with love and light
I was thinking that if I posted my questions here, not just in privet messages.
It could be two fold. If you want to play!
First, to those that may really relate to what I am saying and want to add, comment or ask questions you can AND you have my permission to be as DESPERATE from your heart as you want and need.
Second, for artist, teachers and healers, for those that has valuable insight and wisdom to share about these times of desperation. We would love for you to put your heart into your response not just for me but for all those that come across this post and feel like they are in the same boat in life at this particular time. And you can add value to them and their lives right here on this page.
Desperation from the bottom of my heart
How does a 29 year old man that sucks at grammar and spelling although enjoys creative writing become successful with an internet website/blog business?
How can a man that has looked at his purpose and mission in life still not know what to do in the world and not know what to offer?
How can a man that has spent most of his life wanting to help others not know how to help them or even his self sometimes?
How does a man that has so many passions in life not know what to focus his business on or about and how to make money at that?
How could a 29 year old man that has been doing personal and spiritual growth since he was 18 if not his whole life, not know what he has to offer to the world?
Why does an honest man with compassion and integrity still after 29 years on this planet struggle with financial problems in life?
Why does a man with so much information and awareness in his head have such a hard time getting it out into the world in a way others can and want to hear it, and want to pay for it as valuable life serving content?
How does a man know if he is clear on what he loves and is passionate about in life?
PS. How are you doing in your life? Hope all is well with you and your loved ones. Other then the above words my life is beautiful.
Blessings with love,
Jeremy
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I wanted to share what my mom rote back to me because I love her so much and I am grateful to have givin her the opportunity to share her love and wisdom with me. Thank you mom for loving me, I love you back!
Here it is;
How does ANYONE, of ANY age, achieve success in business, have clarity of their purpose, goals, passion, service, focus, priorities, and fine-tuned communication skills? Men who are much older than you often still ask those questions, sometimes their whole life through. The answers are in-part inside of you, ready and waiting for your surrender and acceptance of yourself, your limitations, and your flawless talents; and also in-part found in the world we live in (or universe). The internal and the external factors work in balance, and we either choose to work with those forces or against them, every day, every moment–and that balance changes continually.
For me, I get my comfort, clarity, and assurance for following my best path through my dependence on God. I don’t know any other way to find such answers but to seek guidance, try a path out with our best efforts, while letting go of the burdens that hold us back–which is done by relying on a higher power to handle them for us.
Keep learning, keep soul-searching, keep doing and trying your best, be teachable, adaptable, willing, and never give up. I have complete faith in you to follow your passions and find your niche successfully. Thank you for writing to me. I love your with all my heart.
~Momma
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I am desperate to know how I can help you in life.
I am desperate to know how you can help me in life.
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Full Dark Moon November 12, 2008
My lovely Leah Rose Duke,
Thank you for loving me,
I love you too, unconditionally with all my heart,
You have given me such a beautiful mirror to see,
Magnificent light that shines even in the dark of me,
My soul loving yours infinitely,
In this moment I am consciously,
Beyond the point of no return swimming in the awareness of our love and unity,
My love for you is driving me,
To lead you within this life on a journey,
As I embrace your fears and face your demons with empathy,
My secret is compassion to soften the “tough” cookie,
Loving you even if you do not,
Even if you forgot,
You are safe with me,
Because I can show you that you can see that you are safe indeed,
My sweet cherished amazing feminine beauty,
I live to see you smile,
And I love to watch you grow,
The man in me,
Knows to be,
Unconditionally,
Witnessing,
Your inner and outer exotic unique beauty,
I would be honored to stand by your side,
In life detached of course enjoying the ride,
Committed to loving you for all of life,
Baby, will you be my bride, will you marry me?
I will have you as my wife!
Thank you for loving me…
And Then We Got Married June 20th 2009 the best day of my life. : )
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